“We haven’t decided if we want to have more kids,” she said.

It wasn’t an odd statement. Not at all. It was the kind of statement I had made for the first twenty years of our marriage. Actually, that’s not true. For the first ten years of our marriage, I said: 

“I don’t want to have ANY kids.”

And then it was:

“We might have a COUPLE of kids.” 

Three kids later, it was:

“We are DONE having kids!” 

So, no, her statement wasn’t odd. But where she said it was odd. 

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